Strap Ons: The Great Equalizer

So now every woman has a way to experience what it is like to penetrate another woman. That’s’ pretty much all there is to this sex toy.

I do think it’s neat that a woman can now almost feel exactly what it’s like to be on the giving end of penetration. I bet many women have wondered just what exactly it feels like to be on the giving end of sexual congress. I can’t say that I would like to experience the receiving end of the penetration (by a strap on or anything else) but it is good that women are able to see what sex is like from the other side.

You know, maybe it’s just the heterosexual male in me talking, but I also think two women sharing a strap on is extremely erotic. I know that they are using the strap no because they don’t need a man, and probably wouldn’t want one, but still the thought of it is very exciting. I think most men would just be happy to watch a pair (or a group, let us not limit ourselves) of women demonstrating just how effective this sex toy can be. As I understand it, some of the more popular web sites are based on just this theory.

I know that may sound of sexist, and I am by no means trying to belittle or make light of this sexual aid. I was just stating that from my point of view, watching women operating these strap ons would probably be just about the greatest thing ever since sliced bread. What kind of heterosexual man would not like to watch two beautiful women perform sexual acts on one another with this sexual toy? For those of you who have no idea what I am talking about (or you do, and you just want me to describe it a little better) let me bring you up to speed.

A woman will put on this harness which fits snugly around her waist. A prosthetic penis is attached to the harness, and the woman who is on the giving end of the strap on has the pressure of the constant thrusting rubbing against her clitoris, providing wild exhilaration that can only be imagined or downloaded via some of the aforementioned websites. Women can actually bring themselves to climax as well as their partner, no matter which position the other person is in.

Again, as a man, my interest on this subject is somewhat tarnished, and very self serving. This is a sexual aid devoted entirely to women (and possibly a few eunuchs) and yet it gives men pleasure as well. There is the obvious pleasure of watching a woman penetrate another woman, but there is more a man could experience from this sexual aid. I suppose if a man got brave enough, he and his girlfriend could take turns penetrating each other. I guess it could be used as a way that a man can experience what a woman feels without having to ask another man to enter the scene. Instead of the man penetrating the woman she could penetrate the man, and unless the man discovered that he liked that more than he did just standard heterosexual sex, then I don’t see a problem. I am, however, going to go on record as saying that whoever the man let’s do this to him, he better trust the other partner. A lot. Especially if the man in question has never done anything like this before, and has no idea just how much he is capable of handling.

I’m thinking that strap ons are probably more for the women than the men. I’m not sure there are that many men who would willingly be on the receiving end of such a sexual experiment. Personally, I think it’s best if we just give this one completely to the women, and just be content with watching them perform. I know that I don’t speak for all men, but for the men I know, I speak for them. Each of them that I have spoken to about this (all three of them) have told me that watching the women do this would be perfectly fine; they just would not be willing to participate. Rather than go around and ask random guys if they would like to be on the business end of a strap on, I’m just going to go ahead and assume that these three men represent the majority of most heterosexual men.

So here it is in a nutshell. Strap ons give women the same empowerment that a penis gives a man. A woman can put on her harness, and at that time she is able to perform and feel what it’s like o be a man. I could go into details about how the friction of the penis against a woman’s clitoris also allows them to feel sensations that no other man could feel, but that’s not the point. The point is, while that woman is wearing that harness, she gets to psychologically and sexually step into a man’s shoes. This type of empowerment also heightens the sexual intensity for the woman, therefore allowing her to have orgasms that most men couldn’t conceive of. In a way, this is kind of unfair to me. I mean, they already get to feel what its like to have sex as a man, so now when they do so they get to have more mind blowing and powerful orgasms? I’m going to be a serious for a moment: This kind of brings me down.

One of the great things about being a man was the way we got to reproduce, and now even that is not solely ours anymore. Then again, to get over all that negativity, all a man has to do to cheer himself up is watch a couple of women (or a couple hundred) show him how to really work what God gave him naturally.